This is strictly for the wives today.
NO matter who you think you were when you got married, you are not the same person. You have added someone or something to your life and now you are different.
Whoever your husbands are in your life, you are now them. Oh don’t get offended. Look at what he does to make you mad, do you do it as well? What about what makes him mad with you; does he do it as well?
You both are different. You should be. No one said get married just to change the name. Something about you must happen that must be different then when you were single.
Now that you know the truth, make the necessary adjustments and keep moving. What I mean is, you have to understand that you can’t be to your friends what you need to be to your husband. You can’t be to your parents what you need to be to your husband. You can’t be to your children what you need to be to your husband. You are now on the late show. Catch up. Be the wife God called you to be and stop acting like you are a DIVA on showcase.
Just keep moving. Why?
Right now your husband is wondering what happened, or he’s wondering why he gave up him for you who gave up nothing. Play catch up ladies and keep moving.
Especially if you want to keep your marriage.
It’s too late for some. Just play it out, the story is ending. For those of you in this scenario, you better let God help and heal you both. Depression will set in if you don’t; depression is a spirit you don’t want to keep moving with day-to-day.
For the rest of you, become the wife AGAIN, and put your husband first. Everything else will fall into place.