When you know that you love your spouse and you will do anything to keep your marriage together, you will understand that GOD HAS YOU COVERED, if you reach up and OUT.
There is nothing too hard for God; so when you stand on that you know that HE will do all He can WITH YOU THROUGH YOU AND FOR YOU.
FOR YOUR MARRIAGE!!
Everyone goes through some hard times, but when you go through, do you give up? No. There are no struggles in life that end with NO. The struggles end with a roaring: YES LORD THANK YOU. So, even if you have to step back, and love on each other just a little more than others would like, DO THAT.
Pray about what you want in your spouse and let God take control in your MARRIAGE. God bless.