One of the things I know having been a wife, is that when I would think of making love sessions, my thoughts went to my husband. I didn’t fantasize about anyone else, and it wasn’t really a fantasy. It was a thought of what was about to GO DOWN with my husband later that day, that night, etc.
It’s not lust if you’re married and thinking of your husband. It’s not lust if you’re having hot and steaming LOVE MAKING with your husband. What is lust and sinful, etc, is when you have to think of someone to get aroused, when you watch pornography, when everything outside your bedroom has to help you in your bedroom.
Get it together saints!
Love on, and with, your SPOUSE!