The Day You Wake UP

Well, the one thing I love about being a writer, coach, and ministry leader, God gives me assignments I can’t turn down

Today starts a new series: THE DAY YOU WAKE UP. I’m talking to the ladies today and I want you to hear me LOUD AND CLEAR. There is nothing we can’t do in our lives, especially in our marriages when we let God lead.

The day you wake up is truly when you hear the instructions with a different set of ears; clear ears and mind. It’s not like any other day.

TODAY was that DAY for me.

And now that getting ready for the end of the day, ready to say good night, I’m excited for what that next day will bring. So here is the start of THE DAY YOU WAKE UP series.

What will you receive?

• Snippets of a new book.
• B.A.D  Queen the wife
• Motivation for Love
• and more.

God bless stay tuned!

Positive Affirmations for Marriage #16: I respect you!

This one is for the ladies.

The Bible tells us to respect our husbands; maybe this is where they arranged marriages instead allowing the two to fall in love. Men are told to love their wives as Christ loves the church; this is where honor comes in.

Ladies, we have to respect our husbands, especially in public, because we don’t want anyone to TRY to slip and take our husbands. I said TRY not succeed. When we publicly humiliate them that is all they remember, not even the point of the argument, or misunderstanding. A man only recognizes embarrassment so don’t put them on the spot; respect their manhood. When you are at home, talk to your husband about what bothers you. Give him some understanding of what worries you or hurts you. Even in the privacy of your own home, you must be able to communicate without drawing knives; spiritually and physically.

Show your husband that you RESPECT HIM.

Dana Neal

Author

Coach

Rekindle the Fire

I was watching a movie I probably shouldn’t be watching, but ohhhh well. Nothing pornographic just a love story about some vampires…sooooo now you know. I have some addictions, but God is helping me. 

Anyway, the blog is about you..your marriages. Rekindle that fire. Seriously. I was watching this movie and thought, how many of us, in real life, have a man that loves us so much, would put US (errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrk stop hold up: ladies, i share your pain, but men, I share yours too we all need someone; men and women alike, we need someone..okay back to the post) FIRST before their thirst. 

hmmmm we dont have that.

We need to be the spouse that would the other before MAMA, DADDY, but never before God. We need to be the spouse God intended for us to be..CLEAVING TO OUR HUSBANDS OR WIVES LIKE THE BIBLE SAYS. 

Rekindle that fire that brought you together. It wasn’t money. It wasn’t fame. It was something that made you say I do. (eeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrkkkkkkkkkk Stop again: I’m talking to the ones that didn’t wait on God to point out THE ONE; the one’s that WAITED..are trying to put some water on the fire, if you know what I mean) Okay so, we have to remember our vows; remember the love and press pass the lust. 

I’m reaching out to all of you because even if you didn’t wait on the Lord, He honors your marriage and will keep it, help you to keep it, if you both strive to stay in the place that is RIGHT-EOUSNESS (I meant to spell it like that).

So, take a minute, say a prayer, ask, seek, knock..and rekindle that FIRE. 

Doesn’t hurt to pick up a book of poetry for the married either!

Its not your problem!

I’m looking at a lot of women, that are praying for change in their marriages. These women are at the brink of their breakthrough and have been for quite some time but they can’t get to it because they are worried about their husbands. This is not about their well being or what will happen in the next 5 years, this is about the husbands, aren’t changing when the wives are. Its funny how we pray and ask God to come in, but we won’t let HIM in; why? 

We are to busy trying to clean house, when its not our problem. Its not your problem ladies. No matter what you try to do or what the people are saying, when you pray to God you have to leave it with HIM and let HIM handle it. He’s in control. 

It’s not your problem.

Think about your prayers; if you are saying the same thing over and over and not seeing any results 1. stop saying things over and over 2. hear God and move on to the next task. 

There is nothing wrong with relinquishing control? God didn’t tell you pray and handle it. He said pray I will handle it. You have the strength to run your house, do your job and run a business, while God is working on your BOO!  

ITS NOT YOUR PROBLEM, DAHLIN.

Let it go. Let God do HIS job and you do what HE told you about a week ago. You’re on delay. Its time stop worrying and no that God has it in HIS hands! Get ready for your breakthrough.